When was the last time you and your husband enjoyed a really good time together and had a good laugh?
Has all the fun and excitement felt like it has just faded away into obscurity in your marriage?
When we have been married for a while, there can come a time when it feels like we have hit a plateau in our lives. All the fun times you had can seem like a distant memory.
When you add in a hectic work schedule and raising kids into the marriage equation, enjoying a good time and having a good laugh can be all but forgotten.
I know as a married woman and a mom, life can get very busy and leave little time to sit back, laugh, and enjoy the moment.
However, if we want to keep our married life vibrant and healthy, no matter how busy we are, we should set aside a little bit of time for our partners. We should make time to nourish and re-spark the love in our relationship.
So If your marriage is in need of a joy refresher, and if you want to strengthen your marriage, then here is a helpful list to get your started.
Here are 23 ways to reignite the fun and excitement with your husband again.
1. Watch Movies or TV Shows Together
Watch any kind of movie or TV show together. It can be something you both enjoy or something new. It’s a great time to have fun and add some new found excitement to your marriage.
2. Plan a Date Night
Plan a cheap date night that gets you both out of the house. Date nights don’t have to be expensive to be fun and excitement. There are so many ideas out there. You can simply Google it if you can’t think of something.
3. Cook Together
Learn and try new recipes together. It heightens health, happiness, and bonding as a married couple. Cooking is fun and can spice up your relationship with your husband.
4. Read a Book Together
Discover new books that both of you will enjoy reading together. Throughout the book, you both can take time to discuss whatever topics that may peak your interest.
Reading together keeps a relationship balanced and will give you time to enjoy each other’s company while reading and cuddling.
Here are 5 romantic novels you can read together if you are in the mood for romantic books:
- It Ends with Us – COLLEEN HOOVER
- Gone with the Wind – MARGARET MITCHELL
- Me Before You – JOJO MOYES
- Pride and Prejudice – JANE AUSTEN
- The Thorn Birds – COLLEEN MCCULLOUGH
5. Plan a Romantic Getaway
Explore unfamiliar parts of the world together. A Romantic getaway gives you both some quality time outside of your familial walls.
6. Work Out Together
Grab your husbands hand and invite him to be your workout partner. Working out together can increase happiness and strengthen the emotional bond of your relationship.
7. Play Your Favorite Board Games
Playing games together can be a great way of relieving stress. These will give you time to laugh and test your competitive spirit.
I’ve found a list of romantic board games for couples who want to take their board games to the next romantic level.
Board games are a fun way to learn more about each other. You will learn how your partner plays and how you both work together as a couple.
8 fun board games that will make your bond stronger:
5 Romantic Board Games that will bring enjoyment and romance into your date night:
- Date Night Box Set
- Date Night Couples Games
- Dare Duel – A Romantic Game for Couples
- Bedroom Battle – A Romantic Game for Couples
- Cards2Action Love Hacks
8. Celebrate Together
Couples who celebrate together, stay together. Celebrate those special moments of your married life and shared experiences. It will bring back the good memories and happiness.
9. Renew Your Wedding Vows
Recreate the spark that brought you together by renewing your wedding vows. It’s the perfect way to rekindle the flame between you and your husband.
10. Create New Adventures
Getting out of your comfort zone as married couple will spice things up. You will create beautiful and lasting memories by conquering your fears as a couple.
Volunteer for a charity that is dear to your hearts as a couple. It will bring you closer together by spending time doing a meaningful and fun activity.
12. Create a New Hobby Together
There are plenty of new hobbies that are ideal and can bring your closer as a couple. It could be anything from photography to scrap-booking.
Whatever it is, it will be an opportunity to create new and fun activities and tradition that can last years and bring great memories.
13. Treat Yourself Together
Treating yourself together can be a great way to relax, have fun, and recharge. Try some self-care routines that work for both of you.
14. Road Trips
If you and your husbands love driving, then road trips are something you can do much more frequently. These will keep things interesting and add more time for each other as a couple.
15. Learning a New Language
Learning a new language as a couple is an amazing way to have fun. It’s an amazing idea for both of you to learn new skills and have a good time while learning together. Give the Duolingo app a try.
16. Have an Art Night and Draw or Paint Together
If you and your husband both enjoy the arts, then this is the perfect time for you to have some fun by learning to paint together. Bring a new twist on your married life and get creative by painting great memories together.
17. Q&A Date Night
There is always so much to learn from each other. This is the best time to learn more about your spouse. Spend time with each other and listen to your partner’s heart and soul.
Here is a list of 238 questions to ask your partner on date nights.
18. Read Old Love Letters, Notes, and Cards You’ve Given Each Other
Reintroduce the spark that created the love you had for each other by reading your old love letters, love notes, and the cards you have given to each other. This will surely bring back the sweet and romantic memories you had for each other.
19. Learn How to Dance by Watching Instructional Videos on YouTube
Learning to dance together as a couple can add the much needed fun and excitement that your relationship has been missing. There are plenty of free instructional videos on YouTube you can watch.
20. Write Out Your Love Story Together
Writing your love story together will surely add a deeper connection to your married life. You will both reminisce about how you both have been through good and bad times.
21. Create an At-home Spa Night
A stay-at-home spa date night will surely give you both a relaxing and nice pampering you both deserve. A relaxing home spa will give you both time to focus on each other, relax, and rejuvenate.
22. Give Each Other Massages
Create a romantic bedroom experience for you and your partner with a sensual and aromatic massage. Who doesn’t love a great massage? This will create a more exciting and intimate moment in your married life.
There are plenty of activities to do together to spark your relationship and have fun with your spouse again. I hope this will inspire you to find ways to put the fun and excitement back into your relationship.
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