Sometimes expressing true feelings in a relationship can be complicated.

15 Surefire Signs He Cares More Than You Think

How’s your relationship going?

Are you happier than you were in the beginning? 

Do you find yourself questioning the validity of your partner’s love? 

Even in healthy relationships, there can be times where you wonder:

Does my man truly care for me?

Sometimes it can be hard to determine if your man truly cares for you. Most men are not good at expressing their feelings in the form of words. So that’s why right now you’re maybe wondering if he truly cares for you. 

Maybe your man doesn’t seem to express his love with words.  Maybe he expresses it with action.

Men are raised to be strong and so showing affection sometimes can make them feel uncomfortable. 

This can make the woman begin to question rather their man loves them or not. However, there are men out there who are comfortable in expressing their feelings with words.

Sometimes expressing true feelings in a relationship can be complicated, so if you’re having a difficult time trying to figure him out, then you may need to pay more attention to his actions. 

Actions speak louder than words.

Below are 15 signs that he cares for you even though he doesn’t say it out loud.  These signs will show you that he cares more than you think.


15 Surefire Signs He Cares More Than You Think

15 Surefire Signs He Cares More Than You Think

1.He Fights for You.

When you are experiencing low points in your life, he is always there to lift you back up. He is always there by your side ensuring you feel that everything will be alright. 

He is passionate about his relationship with you.

He is happy to do what it takes to fix what is upsetting you.

A man who cares for you, appreciates and loves you and will defend you and do what needs to be done to fix the relationship.

He fights for you even in the difficult times of the relationship.

He does everything in his power to fight and win your love even without saying a single word. His actions speak what his true feelings are for you.

2. He Introduces You to His Friends and Family.

He truly cares for you when he introduces you to his friends, especially to his family. 

A man who deeply loves his woman, is eager to introduce her to his family and friends.  He is proud to have you in his life.

3. He Doesn’t Lie to You.

People will certainly often hinge on a mistaken attempt to spare one’s feelings; however, your guy understands that is not okay to lie to you.  He values you so much, that he knows lying to you would be damaging to the relationship.  

He understands that a successful relationship can only be built on the truth and he wants to have that genuine relationship with you.

4. He Tries to Help When You’re Upset.

From time to time, all of us have little break-downs.  We’re distressed, we’re scared, and we simply need a person.  Whenever you’re upset or down, he is there for you.  He is your safety net. 

5. He Is Interested in You and Pays Attention.

Some people will just tune you out, or simply ask how you are out of habit to be respectful.   He does not do that.  Instead, he is truly interested and he pays attention to what you are stating. 

He is concerned and wants to know more about your day. 

He is genuinely concerned about your feelings. 

He lets you express your feelings without judgement. He listens before he speaks because he knows how important it is for him to understand you and to fix what it is that is troubling you or the relationship with him.

6. He’s Happy and Excited for You.

You know just how truly excited you are for your friend when they are blessed with good fortune.  He is the same way.  He’s pleased when you’re happy.  Thrilled when you succeed and are blessed with good fortune.

If it places a smile on your face or things are working out for you, it makes him pleased, because he really cares about you.

He is your number supporter and your rock when it comes to pursuing your passion. He is excited to see you succeed because what makes you happy makes him happy too. 

7. He Tries to Make a Good Impression On Your Friends and Family.

He recognizes exactly how important your close friends and your family is to you, so he makes an effort to leave a good impression on them.

He not only loves and respects you, but he also shows respect and love for the people you care about, especially your family. 

He makes sure that he is leaving a good impression on your family and friends, because he knows it is important for you and that makes him a genuine person. 

8. He’s Not Jealous and Possessive.

A little dose of jealousy can be healthy in a relationship, but a lot can kill it.  If he notices another man checking you out and puts his arm around you and gives you a kiss, that’s okay. 

However, if he confronts the man and gets in a fight because he caught him looking at you, then it becomes a problem.

Lastly, if he treats you like a piece of property, then he is becoming a bit possessive in the relationship.  You’re a person, not an object.  Your man does none of that, which is fantastic!

9. He Remembers the Little Things About You.

This isn’t always an incredibly crucial thing and could easily be overlooked, yet it is a subtle indication that he is undoubtedly in love with you.

When he recognizes you’re irritable from hunger, he sneaks a power bar in your backpack when you not looking.  He listens and also cares enough to keep in mind little points.

10. He Wants to Make Up.

In some relationships, when a man is mad he will give his woman the silent treatment, or worse, he will just shut up and disappear for days.   But he isn’t like that. Instead, he takes steps towards reconciliation and works on ways to prevent the same issue happening again in the future.

11. He Asks for Your Advice.

There is something you need to understand concerning guys– they don’t like to speak to other people about their issues and struggles.  They’re extremely “manage my own stuff” type of people.  

That makes it a lot more evident that when he comes to you for guidance or to vent, it’s because he counts on you as well as appreciates your viewpoint as well as reasoning.  He would not do that with just any person.

12. He Cares About Your Pleasure.

What is the intimacy in your life like?  Does he put your pleasure before his? Does he enjoy satisfying you?  Does he appreciate your enjoyment?

If you answered yes, then that’s an indicator he truly cares.  If he only cares about his satisfaction, then you’re relationship with him may be in trouble.

13. He Listens to You.

There is a difference between “hearing” as well as “paying attention”, and men frequently do the hearing but believe it’s the same as paying attention.

If he actually focuses on what you’re saying and is really interested, as well as provides remedies or recommendations, you will then know he is listening and that he respects you and also what you’re experiencing.  He wants things to be much better.

14. He’s Patient and Understanding.

You may act a little bit illogical every now and then, yet he’s extremely patient as well as understanding with you. He doesn’t get pissed and is not dismissive of your feelings. Instead, he puts in the time to comprehend what is wrong.

He can be the most impatient person when it comes to little things, but to you he is doing his best to be patient and understand you. That’s a clear sign that he truly cares for you.

15. It’s Not “Her and I”, It’s “We”.

This is soooo adorable.  He says “We”.  To him the relationship is a team effort.  There is no “I” or “You”, it’s “We”.  You’re partners and best friends. You got each other’s backs.  

You wipe away each other’s tears.  You’re there for each other in times of need.  Without him you only half a woman and without you he’s only half of a man.

Final thoughts:

If he does these things for you, then Congratulations! He truly and deeply loves you and cares for you more than you think. Your man may not just be good in saying it in words but he is more comfortable to show how much he cares for you by doing it in actions. 

If your man does the above things for you, then you need to stop overthinking about your relationship with him. Let the love grow and nurture your relationship with him. 

However, if you think he is lacking with showing you some care and love, then maybe it’s time to talk to him by heart to heart.  Let him speak and listen to him and see if he is willing to work things out with you. 

If he truly loves and cares for you, then everything will be alright no matter how difficult times will get in your relationship.

You two will weather the storm together because you both truly love and care for each other.

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