The good guy will build you and not break you. The good guy who wants you will care for you and be by your side, it’s as simple as that.
If he wants you, he will be by your side, it’s as simple as that.
If he really wants to be with you, he will take the time. “Being busy” is an expression we have allowed men to use to treat us badly or not be up to what we deserve.
Someone who really wants you and really wants to be with you will do it. There is no gray area regarding this. There is no “if”, “maybe” or “almost”. Someone who wants to be with you is there for you despite of his busy schedule.
And if he sends contradictory signals, it is because he does not want you enough and the only people you should want and in whom you should invest time and emotions are those who want you.
It is not up to you to convince someone that they should want to be with you.
There are always obstacles in relationships and it is up to you to find someone who sees these things as something easy to overcome TOGETHER. It is not you who should make every effort, nor him. It takes effort for two.
If you ever find yourself spending too much energy on someone, then this is not a relationship that is right for you. Because the right relationship will happen very easily.
And there will be no moment of uncertainty.
If you ever find yourself rereading text messages because you feel like you misread the signals or have been confused and hurt, this is not the right thing.
There will be no bad time to text him because, no matter when, he will want to hear from you.
There will not be a time of day to see him just a schedule that you both may have to change sometimes, but he will do it because he wants to see you.
The person you deserve is someone who will want you as much as you do, and those feelings will leave you fulfilled.
You will never wonder how he feels because he will want you to be confident and loved.
The good guy realizes that it is his job to make you feel safe and confident, loved and desired.
If someone does not do these things, it is not for you.
There is no feeling strong enough to change what someone feels for you and someone doesn’t feel or show the same thing as you, so you stop investing in that person because you hurt yourself if you always choose someone who doesn’t choose you.
Guys can try to confuse your head and your heart and send a hundred contradictory signals, but it’s up to you to realize when someone does this and go away. It is not a sign that should make you try harder.
The boys are playing. But the good guy will not do it.
The good guy will build you and not break you.
The good guy will care about you and won’t make you wonder.
The good guy will take all your faults and imperfections and push you to see what you can become.
He will not use your faults against you as if there is something to be gained by making you feel guilty.
A good guy will make you feel safe with the way you feel and will not leave with the secrets entrusted to you.
A good guy will value vulnerable moments and will not consider you weak.
A good guy will make you one of his top priorities because he takes the love and affection of a woman and doesn’t take that for granted.
A good guy realizes how childish it is to hurt girls and that it’s not attractive.
A good guy realizes that the most attractive thing he can do is find a single woman and make her feel that he is the best thing that has ever happened to her. And it’s his job to convince her and prove that he deserves her time and attention.
A good guy is not afraid to enter into a deep relationship even if he is too nervous.
A good guy doesn’t use the word “busy” because there is always time. It’s just that we all take time for the people who matter.
And it’s up to you to invest your time in someone who is worth it. And the worthy person will never be the boy who confuses you and leaves with your heart.
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