6 Life-Changing Habits to Develop While Finding The Love of Your Life
Finding the love of your life is not an always easy path. Below are 6 things you can do while waiting or finding the love of your life.
Finding the love of your life is not an always easy path. While some people marry their schoolmates and live happily ever after, others go through disappointments and frustrations, one after another. And there is also someone who lives happily without a partner, because nobody has said that being single and happy is in jail.
The following is intended for those of the second group, who want to find love but they encounter again and again with frustration and disappointment. As if destiny told us “It’s not the time yet!”, But we insist, because that’s life.
Have you had bad days? Of those in which you say phrases like: “There are no men,” “They are all the same,” “There is no one worthy,” “All the people I know are in a relationship.” Yes, yes. Have you watched weddings of friends and celebrities thinking ‘why not me’? Pass. Comparing is bad and social networks don’t make it easy for us.
One day, a while ago, I realized that I had spent several days discouraged, a little distressed, because love and I seem not to get along. After those two or three days of sadness, I realized that something was wrong and it was not love.
I was stopping doing things to feel bad. And life passes. This phrase will be passed when you finish reading it. I realized that I was losing minutes of life with no pain of myself and rejoicing in pain that I had no reason to be. That’s when I told myself that I couldn’t keep doing that to myself. I had to take advantage of life, regardless of whether I had a partner or not.
If you think about it, it’s the most logical thing. Being alone can have its advantage, but what about the advantages of doing what you want, without adapting to the needs and schedules of someone else? So, that’s what it’s about, seize the moment.
Forget about relationship status! It’s okay to have a bad day, but let’s not let it be the norm. That’s why I want to share with you some things you can do while waiting for the love of your life and, perhaps … find it on the road!
1. Take courses
Studying something that interests you allows you to acquire new skills for work or life. Cooking, art, wine making, web design, languages … the list is super wide.
They can be online or face-to-face courses, but since we are waiting for Cupid to improve the aim, he sees one in person. The important thing is that it is something that you like, because if you only go to the course hoping to find the love of your life and it turns out that all people of another age or simply there is nobody interesting, at least that the acquired knowledge satisfies you!
Yes! Dancing improves physical and emotional health. While your body benefits from elongating and toning, endorphins improve your mood. You don’t even have to know how to dance, in fact that is the point. When you go to dance classes, nobody is pointing the finger at another because it has less rhythm or coordination. Everything is practical. Classes of rock, salsa, tango, zumba… look for what excites you the most and have a good time dancing. You will leave happy!
Maybe moving your hips doesn’t go with you. One option, then, is to practice meditation. It may be the traditional one you imagine, in the lotus position, but there are also disciplines that allow you to boost your physical and mental health in motion, such as yoga or tai chi.
Also mindfulness, a discipline to be aware in the present, which increasingly adds happiness. Less stress and increased happiness are just some of the benefits of meditation.
Of course traveling allows you to meet people , but if this doesn’t happen, it’s still a wonderful experience. Visit nearby cities or across the ocean, according to your possibilities. The richness of traveling does not depend so much on the kilometers traveled but on discovering other customs, another traditions, and another rhythm of life. Pack your bag, take your camera and enjoy new landscapes and flavors.
5. Help in your community
Participating in solidarity activities in your community is a service to others and a way to improve the world a bit. In addition to the satisfaction of having made your contribution, you socialize and can make new friends.
This does not imply social contact, but it is a good exercise when the mood plays a trick on us. Take a notebook and write down the things you are grateful for every day. Romantic love may be absent, but there are people, jobs and moments to be grateful for.
PS: If you’re looking for more ways and empowering tips on how to be happier while single, then this is the book for you: How to Be Single and Happy. This is an empowering book for all singles, with compassionate guide to stop overanalyzing romantic encounters, get over regrets or guilt about past relationships, and identify what you want and need in a partner. But this isn’t just another dating book.
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