7 Phrases You Should Never Tell Your Partner If You Don’t Want Problems

The friction makes the affection, but too much friction makes wound. Suddenly, the person with whom you share a roof starts telling you unpleasant things, like the ones we collect below. 

You started a relationship , fell in love (or something similar) and, after a few months, you decided to share a roof. But living together is not always easy , rather never. It is not the same to look for a while on the weekend than to do it all year, day and night. 

The friction makes the affection, but too much friction makes wound. Suddenly, there are things that start to bother you, especially phrases that your sweetheart tells you.

Don’t worry, you are not alone. We have collected sincere confessions from people who have ventured in various forums about what bothers them that they tell them their other half. Surely some comment seems more than familiar.

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7 Phrases You Should Never Tell Your Partner If You Don’t Want Problems

1) “If you want me to do something, just tell me”

A woman, a user of ‘ Mumsnet ‘ opened a forum with this complaint: that her husband is too complacent. He hates to say “if you want me to do something, tell me” because “basically, this phrase means that he never takes the initiative to plan or think about what he needs to do and that it seems that I am in charge of everything around the house. He will do something if I ‘delegate’ it, but nothing will come out of it, “he writes, quite annoying.

If your partner has been angry, it will be for something. The worst thing you can do is to say “you get angry for all my love, it’s silly”, followed by “leave it now”

“Why do I always have to be the one who thinks about what needs to be done or not ? For example, cleaning, that you have to go buy bread, or a gift for a party. Why can’t he put the washing machine if you see the laundry basket full, or what would happen if I never ask you, for example, to sweep the house and I do not do it? You are 36 years old and you are not an idiot. without me having to ask for it. “

2) “Not clean because it’s my day off”

In the same forum we find this, which is gold: the average man is not willing to do housework because “he is on his day off” (LOL). “I understand this. 

A woman in the forum shared: My partner had two days off after having been working for several days in a row. I was working. And he didn’t do anything about the house because ‘he was on his day off.’ That was his excuse. When do you think that I do the homework? We both work the same hours, so I don’t know why we shouldn’t split the tasks equally. I think I’m reasonable. “

3) “You get angry about everything, it was silly”

If your partner has been angry, it will be for something. And if not, you shut up and assume it, or try to discuss it calmly. The worst thing you can do is to say “you get angry for all my love, it’s silly”, followed by the detested “leave it now” or ” you make a mountain of a grain of sand “. 

Each person is a world and has a scale of values, which for you is silly and you do not pay any importance, it does not have to be this way for another person, and vice versa. Such an answer will only make the situation worse.

4) “You are bossy”

This is something they usually say to them, and it is closely related to point number one of this article. If most men have no predisposition to do homework, someone will have to tell them to do it. And there are the women. “Fu*k, you’re a bossy one,” and without the fu*k, it’s the worst thing you can say to your partner.

5) “I don’t need help”

“I just don’t understand it. Why is it so difficult to ask for help? It is often easier for you to lend a hand because you have required it than to waste time and energy doing it yourself, or trying,” says a rather annoying couple in the mentioned forum. And, from here, we agree.

6) “Now I’m busy, then we talk”

This phrase is one of the worst, especially if it is repeated regularly. The burden is part of our lives and many times we put so much effort into a task that we forget to take care of the rest.

It is true that it is very complicated to carry out an action and at the same time pay attention to another person, but nothing happens to leave it aside for five seconds, listen to what he wants to say and respond calmly that is then spoken.

“I hate that he tells me ‘if you want me to do something, tell me’ because” basically, this phrase means that he never takes the initiative to plan or think “

7) “Have asked me”

In every couple there is the one who does everything on his own and who, by not putting it in common, encounters a problem. “He didn’t tell me he was going to buy bread and now we have two bars .” Let’s see, it’s not about making a referendum of everything, or about doing nothing, but that there is a minimum of communication between both parties.


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